Perhaps love is...

« Perhaps love, is this movement by which I bring you back to yourself. »

Saint Exupéry

Yo

So… big deal tonight.

We might have been trough a lot lately.

Like breakups, revelations, shadow work, old truths, endings and so on.

A lot of pressure

A lot of tension

A lot of « WTF? »

This Scorpio season has finally ended up (thanks god!) but without forgetting to release a lot of unresolved karma, just to be sure that we have understood and learned the « lessons ».

I have personally had to revisit my old wounds.

The kind that our inner child carried for too long.

The ones that tell about the absent father and how they can insidiously interfere in our (love) relationships as a woman.

And to say…

Some people say that love is easy,

Simple.

I’d like to believe that.

I’d even like to experience that.

But I also believe that until we find that inner peace that nothing can shake,

Until we manage to accept those shortcomings, those flaws, those wounds that have shaped us in a certain way,

Until we have not managed to be our own « father » and our own « mother »,

Well...

Love can be a hell of a challenge.

It can awaken our internal conflicts and say to us, "Hey! Why don't you look there? Why don't you try to heal that? "

Not to become perfect or ‘worthy of love’

But to learn to look at ourselves honestly

Without pretence

And to fully accept ourselves in the mirror that the other person holds up to us

The one we are afraid to look into

Because it reveals certain deep truths that we would rather not see.

The truth is, it can be very difficult to break the spell.

To get out of our own loop.

Because what we have learnt (or seen) in our childhood has built the model from which we connect, most of the time unconsciously, to one another.

And sometimes pain can feel more « comfortable » than wellbeing because it’s all what we have experienced, in a way or another.

But maybe…

« Love is, this movement by which I bring you back to yourself » and…

I’m not saying here that we have to be completely healed to love and be loved.

As I know that these are just words and that I myself am far from having succeeded in embodying my deepest aspirations.

But if we can become more conscious about our internal dynamics and work on it as much we can

Once again, not to become perfect or « worthy of love »

Not to say that we no longer need each other

But to understand why we need each other

To try not to fill an unconscious void

Not to project onto the other the image of the ideal mother or father

Then

Maybe we can learn to truly love.

Consciously.

Because…

« Love is, this movement by which I bring you back to yourself »

And it’s probably one of the most beautiful things that we can do.

For ourselves.

And for each other.

So…

Take good care guys 👀

And love even more, no matter what 💫🤍